Peacefully and surrounded by his family, James “Jim” Harrelson Graham, entered into eternal glory on December 27, 2024 at the age of 64 years. The family rejoices in the fact that he is now hand in hand with his daughter, Katybug. He was born on September 22, 1960 in Kankakee, a son of Benjamin and Betty (Boswell) Graham.
He will be lovingly remembered and missed by the love of his life, Jeanne C. (Bertrand) Graham of rural Kankakee, whom he married on December 1, 1984 in Naples, Florida.
Also surviving are one daughter, Ashley (Brian) Stevenson of Kankakee; one son, Tyler (Megan) Graham of Buckingham; special niece, Mary Havens of Norwood, Ohio; five grandchildren, Bentley Stevenson, Owen Stevenson, Grey Stevenson, Finley Graham, and Reigan Graham; two brothers, Larry Graham of Franklin, North Carolina and Jeff (Marla) Graham of Clifton; two sisters, Pat Goranson of Kankakee and Jan (Jay) Garner of Metropolis; sisters- in-law, Toni Graham of Chatsworth , Kae (Chaz) Heninger of Lake Placid, Florida, and Jan (Dean) Ferris of Bonfield; brother-in-law, Gerry (Donna) Bertrand of Charleston; special friend, “Lil’ Bit”; and 23 nieces and nephews.
Jim was preceded in death by his daughter, Katelyn Graham; father, Benjamin Graham; mother, Betty Jo (Boswell) Graham; father-in-law, Duane Bertrand; mother-in-law, Junetta Bertrand; brother, Danny Graham; sister and brother-in-law, Carol and Roger Murphy; brother-in-law, Charles Goranson; sister, Debra (Graham) Turley; brother, Kevin Graham; and sister-in-law, Leanne (Bertrand) Havens.
Jim was a carpenter for Union 496 for over 30 years. He also found joy helping his wife in their business, Etched in Time, building trophies and running jobs.
Jim’s greatest joy in life were his children and grandchildren. He would always be seen proudly sporting a “Papa” shirt and cherished every moment spent with his family. Never taking anything for granted, he loved with his whole heart. He always showed up to his children’s and grandchildren’s events and was their biggest fan. An avid fan of the Cubs and Bears, “Sunday Fundays” were something he looked forward to every week with Jeanne and their dog, Alvin. Music was a big part of who Jim was and his passion for music will keep his memory alive. Jim had a love for everyone he encountered and anyone who knew him loved him in return. Known for his quick wit and subtle one liners, he brought a smile to all our faces. His hugs were a testament to his heart of gold.
The love between Jim and Jeanne is the perfect example of true love. From their very first dance, they knew they had found their soulmate. Just celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary, they share a love that will live forever.
Funeral services will be at 10:00 a.m. on Friday, January 3, 2025 at the Knapp Funeral Home in Clifton with Pastor Jacob Garrett officiating. Visitation will be on Thursday, January 2, 2025 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. also at the funeral home. Burial will be at Evergreen Cemetery in Chebanse.
Memorial donations to be made to the family wishes.